I came across an intriguing poem, and I think you might enjoy it. You can search for the author if you’re curious to learn more about its origin.
I asked God to make my handicapped child whole,
God said no.
He said her spirit already is, while her body is only temporary.
I asked God to grant me patience.
God said no.
Patience is a by-product of tribulations. It isn’t granted. It is earned.
I asked God to give me happiness.
God said no.
I give you blessings. Happiness is up to you.
I asked God to spare me pain.
God said no.
Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.
I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said no.
You must grow on your own. I will prune you to make you fruitful.
I asked God for things that I might enjoy in life.
God said no.
I will give you life, so that you may enjoy all things.
I asked God to help me love others as much as he loves me.
God said finally, now you get the idea.